You used to be the first person she called when something good or bad happens to her. Now you are no longer that person. Do you ask yourself why? It’s because you were never there for her when she needed you the most and you were never the one she could count on.
You used to be the person with whom she enjoyed spending time with. Now she always chooses her friends over you. Do you ask yourself why? It’s because even though you were able to hear what she was saying, you never really listened to her.
You used to be the person she could imagine her future with. Now you are not that person anymore. Do you ask yourself why? It’s because you never showed her that you can imagine your future with her too.
You used to be the person that she missed the first second you were apart. Things have changed now. Do you ask yourself why? It’s because she never felt that you missed her too and you showed her that her presence wasn’t so important to you.
You were the person she eagerly awaited the calls and messages from. Now she ignores you and she doesn’t call or text back. Do you ask yourself why? Because she is sick and tired of being the only one who cares about the relationship, the only one who invests time into the both of you. It’s because she gave everything and got nothing in return.
Do you feel like she is drifting apart from you and you ask yourself why? It’s because she realized that she deserves a lot better than being mistreated, ignored and taken for granted. She has lost herself while she was trying to make the relationship work – all alone. Now she has gone to a journey to find herself again.
Do you feel like her passion for you has been extinguished and you ask yourself why? It’s because you taught her how to stop loving you.
And while you watch her leave, don’t be surprised, it’s because you never gave her a single reason to stay.