After seven years of marriage, I got divorced. After the divorce I couldn’t stop thinking about all those seven years, about all the things I should have done, about all the things that could have saved my marriage.
- Search For The Positives:
Concentrate only on the positive characteristics of him. - Love Making:
It’s like a remedy that can heal the damage both of you made to the relationship. - 3. Smart Elders:
Listen to the advice the elders give to you. They are wiser and have gone through more in live than we have. - Space:
If he wants to spend some time on his own – let him. If he is not fully concentrated on you, it doesn’t mean that he doesn’t care. - Accept Him As He Is:
Don’t try to change his habits, it’s simply impossible. Trying to alter his mind is a way that leads to disaster. Let him be and keep the beautiful grace your marriage has. - Respect Him:
Men need to be respected and valued just like women do. - Trust The Choices He Has Made:
Because you are one of them. - Appreciate His Efforts:
Be supportive even when his efforts didn’t really work well. - Responsibility:
As adults, all of us should be responsible for all the actions that we take and all the emotions we provoke in the person next to us. - Kindness:
Both of you need to learn how to treat each other with the things you both love. - Support:
Give your support when he needs it, encourage him, try to bring the best out of him and eliminate the negativity. - Strict NO To Gossiping:
Men hate girl talks, so stop immediately when he is near. - Discover His Fantasies:
Spice up your marriage with special surprises that will express your love towards him. Try to think in the way he thinks and give him exactly what he likes. - Take Care Of Yourself:
Cherish your beauty, men love that. - Devote Your Time:
You should always be there for him, especially when he has some problems. - Stop Comparing:
Never compare your husband with other men. - Accept His Help:
Allowing him to help you when you are in trouble satisfies their masculine ego and boosts his confidence. - Internet Advices As A Problem
Don’t believe everything that you read on the internet because most of the advices can only damage things. - He Is A Human Being:
Don’t judge him for every mistake he does. - Work On Marriage:
Most of the people see marriage as some kind of destination. Remember, marriage is not a destination – it’s a journey and both of the partners are responsible for the direction that it takes. - No Secrets:
Keeping secrets is practically a way of cheating. - Accept the Love He Gives to You:
Maybe he has his own and unique way of showing love. - Don’t Insult In Public:
Every marriage faces with problems that both partners should sort out at home while they are alone. - Try to Match:
Try to find what both of you likes and dislikes. Join the things that both of you have in commons and make your life shine again. - Don’t Mix Up:
We all create an image of our husband in our head and when we try to match that image with the real one, we tend to mix and mess up things. - Money Honey:
Don’t ruin your marriage with these totally unimportant problems. - Accept the Background:
Accept their past as you’ve accepted yours. Nothing from your past is worth any of your fights. - Let Go:
Don’t concentrate on the mistakes, let them go and make life simple. - Be Close to Each Other:
Holding hands, sitting next to each other, kissing frequently, hugging… can all do wonders to your marriage. - Love Is a Priority:
There is nothing more important than love, bear this in mind.
